Distributing assets fairly is a tough job at a really lousy time
Use AI to get everyone together and do the hard work for you.
We make it simple to connect everyone and distribute the pieces that people want in a fair and even manner.
Use Split The Stuff for the hard time between execution of the will and the estate sale. There are family treasures that should stay in the family and we help distribute those items in the easiest and fairest manner possible.
Everything we do is designed to be simple, easy and clear to reduce stress and anxiety. There are no apps to download or accounts to create. Your friends and family just click the link we send and select the items they want.
How it works
Add Items
Upload photos and details of items to split. Optionally, use AI to describe and assign value to the items in uploaded pictures saving you precious time.
Invite Family and Create Groups
You assign priority levels to groups like Siblings, Children, Grandchildren, friends, etc. then invite family and friends to join your groups with email or phone number.
Collect Preferences
We send everyone you added an email, text message or both inviting them to view the items you added and rate their desire for the items on a 1-5 scale.
Fair Division
Get a PDF report emailed to everyone with a fair allocation of items based on preferences. In the event of distribution conflicts, there are several methods you can choose to resolve the conflict before the calculation is finalized.
Frequently Asked Questions
How are the items distributed?
We use OpenAI API to send the preference votes of everyone for each item to the AI to then sort and allocate items so the most people get the things they want the most.
The algorithm used is a form of Greedy Allocation or Preference-Based Fair Division, which is often related to Matching Theory and Discrete Optimization. More specifically, it follows the Maximal Matching in Bipartite Graphs approach, commonly used in Assignment Problems and Fair Division Problems.
Key Steps in the Algorithm:
- Sort Items by Highest Preference: Prioritize assigning items to users with the highest (5) preference first.
- Assign Items Uniquely: If an item has only one user with the highest preference, assign it to them.
- Resolve Conflicts:
- If multiple users want the same item, prioritize users who have no other high-preference choices.
- If conflicts remain, consider secondary preferences (rating 3 or 4).
- Ensure Each User Gets One Item (if possible): Distribute remaining items fairly among lower-preference users.
This resembles the Hungarian Algorithm (used for optimal matching in bipartite graphs) and Gale-Shapley Algorithm (used for stable marriage and fair allocation). However, the specific method applied here is more of a Greedy Preference Allocation technique.
What if there are still conflicts?
There may be situations where a conflict does not have an automatic resolution, ex. five people all want a single item with highest preference and no other items. You can choose from a couple methods to resolve those conflicts:
- First-Come-First-Served – the first user to reply wins the tie-breaker if all else is equal.
- Random selection – The report will clearly indicate which items were distributed due a conflict and random resolution.
- Manual Resolution – You (the administrator) can choose the winner of the tie-breaker, then calculations can proceed to distribute remaining items. (Not recommended due to possible accusation of bias)
How are group priorities handled?
When you create groups you assign the group to a tier then users in the group are assigned items based on tier, ex.: child tier users get priority allocation over grandchild tier users.
- Sorting Order → Users are first sorted by tier (1 before 2), then by preference (higher first).
- Higher-Tier Users Are Processed First → A Tier 1 user’s 4 will be assigned before a Tier 2 user’s 5.
- Conflicts Are Resolved Automatically by ensuring higher-tier users get first pick.
How can I get support after purchasing?
We offer email support for all customers and priority phone support for Pro and Ultimate customers. Our support team typically responds within 24 hours on business days.
What do you do with our data?
We take your privacy seriously. We only use your data to provide the service you’ve requested. We don’t sell or share your personal information with third parties. All data is encrypted and securely stored. You can request deletion of your data at any time after your report is complete.
Most importantly though you get to control what you send to us. For example we don’t need a real name for the group. You can call it “Gigi’s Stuff” and nobody has any idea who Gigi is or where her stuff is except your family. When you invite family & friends to vote on items, we don’t need their full or real name.
The only time we need real, complete data is for credit card processing by Stripe. Again, that data doesn’t come to us it’s just between you and Stripe.
Is this distribution legally binding?
No, it’s not. We’re not lawyers, we’ve only hired too many of them ;). This is just a tool to provide a neutral, unbiased, fair distribution based on peoples’ desires and preferences. A PDF can’t force anybody to do anything, but this tool reduces some of the emotions and hard conversations that can cause more grief in families.
If you need to have a total value based distribution (how much everybody’s stuff was worth), let us know and we may be able to build that.
Is this tool only for estates?
No! You can use this any time you want to divide or distribute things in a convenient and fair way.
- Downsizing/Moving
- Divorce
- Excess Inventory
Still have questions or an idea how we can help you better?
Drop a line to feedback@splitthestuff.com
Get Started with Affordable Pricing
Compare to other services with prices starting at hundreds of dollars with fewer members and choosing our service is a no-brainer.
Ultimate
$99.99
/estate
Unlimited Items
Unlimited Members
Up to 5 Groups
Priority Email Support